When: Saturday & Sunday, November 6 & 7, 2021, 9am-5pm EDT
Where: Smith College Conference Center, 49 College Lane, Northampton, MA
Instructor: George Faller, MS, LMFT
Level: Intermediate, for EFT Clinicians
Rates: Super Early Bird for NEEFT Members before 6/11/21 – $375; Early Bird Rate before 9/25/21 – $400; Full Rate – $450; Student Rate available upon request
CEs: 12 CEs approved for LMFTs, LICSWs, LMHCs, and Lic. Psychologists
Additional Fee for CEs: $25
Target Audience: Marriage & Family Therapists, Social Workers, Mental Health Counselors, Psychologists
Co-Sponsored by the Relationship Counseling Center
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Do escalated couples make you want to quit being a therapist? Join us as we explore those moments of greatest difficulty for couples, from still-face to high reactivity to despair and rage. Learn how to keep your focus and go deeper in the face of reactivity. We’ll explore, demonstrate, practice and integrate in an interactive, experiential way. Through a combination of lecture, videotaped session samples, and exercises, participants will learn to better conceptualize EFT and to help couples recognize and deescalate problematic cycles of interaction. Participants will also learn to help couples create or restore the emotional bond between them once the negative cycle—and the attachment needs that drive it—has been understood.
At the conclusion of this program, participants will be better able to:
- Describe 3 underlying emotions that withdrawers feel
- Describe 3 underlying emotions that pursuers feel
- Define the EFT clinical skills associated with de-escalation
- Describe the function of protective strategies that create negative cycles
- Identify the positive cycle of responsiveness to replace the escalated, negative cycle
Schedule (all times in EDT)
9-10:30am Introduction to Couple Distress, Attachment Theory, Process of EFT
10:45am-12:15pm Understanding the Function of Matching Affect
1:45-3:15pm Taking Charge of Session
3:30-5pm Keeping your Focus with Interruptions
9-10:30am Going Deeper with Withdrawers
10:45am-12:15pm Going Deeper with Pursuers
1:45-3:15pm Restructuring Emotional Bonds
3:30-5pm Celebrating the Process of Change – Tying It All Together
George Faller, MS, LMFT is a retired Lieutenant of the NYC Fire Department, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in New York and Connecticut and an Approved Supervisor for the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. He is the founder and President of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). As an EFT Trainer, George teaches several classes at the Ackerman Institute for the Family (the oldest family institute in the United States) in NYC, is a board member of the Porter Cason Institute for the Family at Tulane University in New Orleans and is the director of training at the Center for Hope and Renewal in Greenwich, Ct. Specializing in trauma, Family EFT, and self-of-the-therapist issues, George is committed to bringing EFT to underprivileged populations and pushing the leading edge of effective therapy. George hopes his books True Connection, Sacred Stress and Emotionally Focused Family Therapy contributes to the EFT movement of making our world a more secure place.
Continuing Education Credit is approved through Commonwealth Educational Seminars for the following professions:
Commonwealth Educational Seminars is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. Commonwealth Educational Seminars maintains responsibility for this program and its content.
- Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists:
Commonwealth Educational Seminars (CES) is entitled to award continuing education credit for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists. Please visit CES CE CREDIT to see all states that are covered for LMFTs. CES maintains responsibility for this program and its content.
- Licensed Professional Counselors/Licensed Mental Health Counselors:
Commonwealth Educational Seminars (CES) is entitled to award continuing education credit for Licensed Professional Counselors/Licensed Mental Health Counselors. Please visit CES CE CREDIT to see all states that are covered for LPCs/LMHCs. CES maintains responsibility for this program and its content.
- Social Workers:
Commonwealth Educational Seminars (CES) is entitled to award continuing education credit for Social Workers. Please visit CES CE CREDIT to see all states that are covered for Social Workers. CES maintains responsibility for this program and its content.
Please note: It is the participant’s responsibility to check with their individual state boards to verify CE requirements for their state.
This program is being offered independent of any commercial support or conflict of interest. Clinicians with any level of experience are welcome to participate.
The Couple & Family Institute of New England (CFINE)’s training facilities are handicap accessible. Individuals needing special accommodations, please contact Lindsay Swan, CFINE Administrator, at (413) 341-0543 or firstname.lastname@example.org.